The following melancholy missive reminds one of the rash of suicides in Plano, Texas long ago where rich kids(couples) entered into suicide pacts because parents disagreed with the viability of the relationship and prohibited its continuation. Painless garage carbon monoxide inhalations extinguished the young love bird’s short lives as I recall.
It was 8 months ago that I lost my little brother to depression and suicide. The horror, sadness, and shock I have experienced over the past several months was amplified when I heard that another young person had died and another family shattered by the horrific illness that is depression.
Major depressive disorder is a complex and sinister disease fraught with social stigma and isolation. The recent editorial published in the Los Alamos Daily Post, various Facebook posts, and general rhetoric in the community clearly demonstrate a lack of understanding about mental illness.
Anyone would acknowledge the absurdity of advocating for more love and less pressure to prevent cancer(The obvious absurdity is not at ALL clear here; how about less pressure correlated to lower incidence of disease in general). No one would insinuate that an individual could cure himself of leukemia. Until we acknowledge that a disease cannot be “loved away” or that too much pressure causes fatal illness depressive disorder will continue to be a deadly disease.
I am currently studying medicine in physician assistant school and it has been a comfort to me in my own grief to understand what exactly causes an individual to become so sick(suicide and being sick not equivalent; you should know that as med school student).
As the community grieves yet another tragic death, it may provide some relief to understand the mechanisms behind the disease. Also, understanding the physiological and biological processes of depression should help dispel the myths associated with the disease.
While much more research needs to be done, current general medical consensus is that a number of identified causes play a role in major depressive disorder. One cause of the disease involves the dysfunction of neurotransmitters.
Perhaps depression is so misunderstood because other prominent chronic illnesses are easier to detect or treat. Depression has no simple blood test that can determine how sick a person is. Certain treatments may work for some patients and not others. Above all mental illness is incredibly complex.
Typically, the disease progresses slowly and may seem interwoven into an individual’s personality. Usually the patient does not realize the extant of the illness.
Worse, because of the myths and stigmas associated with depression, many patients feel guilty or embarrassed by their disease. Oftentimes, family members and friends have no idea how sick their loved one is until it is too late to seek help. Maybe this too is what makes depression seem different from other illnesses, the element of guilt in thinking one could have done
more if only one had known, or the pain in knowing how much a loved one suffered and the failure to realize they were sick.
However, to insinuate that depression is caused by a lack of love, or that a family or patient can wish away his or her illness is ignorant and damaging. No one can cure a fatally ill person by simply loving them more.(Excellent Point!)What is needed in depression, as in any potentially fatal and complicated illness, is a team of medical professionals that understand the complexities of the disease and the best treatment. Only then can this terrible illness become manageable.
To anyone who wants to make a difference and prevent more suffering from mental illness, I would encourage you to learn more about the disease, educate others about the physical causes and devastating consequences of depression and other mental illness, and encourage policy makers to include legislation advocating for funding of new research and support for patients
with mental illness.